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7 proven ways to manage anxiety in your daily life 

Anxiety can often feel like an unwelcome guest, affecting your mood, productivity, and overall quality of life. But what if there were simple, effective ways to reclaim your sense of calm and control?

Imagine starting each day equipped with strategies for managing stress and regaining your peace of mind. In this article, we'll explore seven practical strategies for stress management that you can easily integrate into your daily life.

Ready to take the first step toward a more serene and peaceful life? Let's dive in!


1. Grounding techniques 

Anxiety can feel unpredictable and challenging to manage. One minute your day is going great, and then the next minute you start to feel stressed, overwhelmed, and anxious. When this happens, grounding techniques serve as anchors, bringing us back to the present and stabilizing us during the most turbulent emotional moments.

Grounding techniques are designed to reconnect you with your surroundings, diverting your focus from distressing emotions or memories. They interrupt the spiraling thoughts that can cause—or worsen—anxiety. 


Physical grounding techniques 

Physical grounding requires you to engage your senses to help guide your attention away from your anxious thoughts.

  1. 5-4-3-2-1: This technique involves observing your surroundings using all 5 senses. Start by listing five things you hear, four things you see, three things you can touch, two things you can smell, and one thing you can taste. You don’t have to write your observations down, just making a mental list will be enough to help you disengage from anxious thoughts.
  2. Try breathing exercises: Ever notice your heart rate picks up when you’re anxious? Deep breathing exercises are a great way to slow your heart rate and calm your body. Try breathing in for four seconds, hold it for four seconds, and let it out for four seconds. Deep, intentional breaths can signal to your body that everything's okay, resetting your system.           
  3. Smell something pleasant: Smell can have a powerful effect on your mind. Why not use the power of scent to calm your thoughts? Find a familiar, enjoyable, scent to focus on such as the scent of your favorite perfume, freshly baked cookies or a hot beverage.
  4. Grab a piece of ice: Just like an intense flavor can ground you, the sudden cold of ice can jolt you out of anxiety and back to the present. Simply hold a few ice cubes in your hand or trace them along your arms or legs. Focus on the sensation and try to direct your thinking to that if your mind wanders. This ice technique can be extremely helpful when you feel anxious.
  5. Clench and release your fists: This is a type of progressive music relaxation (PMR). This technique allows you to feel and then release tension physically. Doing this can be helpful when trying to ground yourself as your mind and body become more fixated on the physical sensation.


Mental grounding techniques 

The more attention we give our thoughts, the more powerful they become. Redirect your anxious thoughts with these mental grounding techniques. 

  1. Mindfulness: This is one of the most powerful grounding techniques, and embracing a more mindful approach to everyday life can benefit you in numerous ways. Mindfulness is an encompassing term that refers to being present and aware of your current thoughts, feelings, and bodily sensations. At the same time, it also means trying to accept your current reality without judging or trying to change it.
  2. Find your safe place: When you feel anxious, close your eyes, and imagine a safe, comfortable place. Visualize somewhere you feel calm, happy, and secure. It could be a childhood home, a peaceful beach, or even a fictional place. Spend as much time there as you need.
  3. Practice positive affirmations: Gentle reminders like “I am safe” or “This too shall pass” can help calm an anxiety attack. Try an affirmation that helps you feel safe and secure. It's good to get into the habit of practicing these types of affirmations regularly so that your mind is used to hearing them.
  4. Name items in a Category: Think about all the items in a specific category. For example, you could think of as many different action movies or children’s books as possible. This challenge shifts you into a task-oriented direction.
  5. Describe your surroundings: Look around and mentally describe everything. That red coffee mug, the humming of the AC, the faint scent of lavender. Shifting your focus from internal turmoil to the external environment helps reduce anxiety and brings you back into the present moment.


When to implement grounding techniques 

Grounding exercises act as your secret weapon against anxiety. They are most effective if done at the onset of anxiety, stopping it from escalating. These techniques can interrupt the overwhelming emotions and bring you back to a state of safety.

Regular practice of grounding techniques, even during calm periods, teaches you to use them effectively when anxiety or panic are heightened. It’s like training for a marathon, the more you practice, the better you become


2. Focus on what you can control 

A lot of the anxiety revolves around people and circumstances that you can’t control. For example, your health insurance company is raising your premium well beyond what you can afford to pay. You can get yourself worked up about corporate greed and the injustice of raising premiums on average citizens or you can spend that energy working toward a solution to find a more affordable policy. In other words, focus your energy on what you can control. Granted, this is not always easy to do, but once you begin to focus on the variables that you can change through your actions, you no longer feel so helpless or overwhelmed.


3. Breathe

When you feel anxious, take a few slow breaths. Breathe in slowly. Be sure to breathe out all the way. You can use your fingers to count four or five breaths, in and out.

Taking slow breaths can slow the release of stress hormones. It can help your body and mind feel more at ease. As you guide your attention to your breath, you can pay less attention to anxious thoughts and feelings. Breathing like this can help you feel steady and less anxious.



4. Question your thought pattern 

Anxiety often causes worrying thoughts and distressing images that feel intrusive and uncontrollable. One way to stop negative thought patterns is to catch them as they are happening and replace them with positive thoughts or ideas. These positive images don't need to be related to the worrying situation; any positive image can reduce anxiety. 

You can also try questioning the validity of your thoughts. As you notice yourself thinking something unkind or untrue, stop and reframe your thoughts toward something more useful.

For example, if you have the thought, "I'm so bad at singing," a kinder and more helpful thought replacement could be, "I'm not as skilled at singing as I am at other things, but I will set a goal for myself to practice and learn new techniques to improve.”


5. Exercise 

Physical exercise and movement are linked to better mental health and reduced anxiety symptoms. Exercise includes all movements that are routine, structured, and intended to improve health. Though exercise may impact types of anxiety differently, most exercises have a positive effect on symptoms, especially when added to a treatment plan that also includes things like therapy and medication.

Here are some examples of exercises to try: 

  1. Aerobic exercises, such as biking, walking, hiking, or swimming.
  2. Weight-bearing exercises, such as squats, weight lifting, and push-ups.
  3. Stretching exercises, such as yoga, pilates, or tai chi.


6. Identify and learn to manage your triggers

Keeping track of your triggers, or things that bring on or worsen anxiety symptoms will allow you to recognize when they are happening and what causes them. 

Common anxiety triggers include:

  1. Work, relationship, and other life stresses.

Withdrawal from drugs or certain medications.

2.Side effects of certain medications.

3. Exacerbation of past trauma.

4. Chronic pain

5. Caffeine

6. Smoking

Try keeping a log to track your symptoms. Include what you did before your symptoms started and how long they lasted.

You can also keep track of what relief strategies you tried at the moment and which were most (and least) effective. Once you've logged a few experiences, review them to see if you notice any patterns.

Everyone has different anxiety triggers, and identifying them is one of the most important steps to coping with and managing anxiety attac


7. Take care of yourself 

It might not seem obvious, but self-care plays a large role in your ability to manage anxiety. When you are getting an adequate amount of sleep, eating healthy meals, being active on a daily basis and avoiding dependence on substances like alcohol and nicotine, you are building up your body and mind’s resilience to stress so that you can handle most of the challenges that come your way.


How do I know if I need to see a mental health professional

The above techniques are an excellent way to cope with anxiety, but it is only a short-term fix for negative emotions that impact your well-being.

If your anxiety starts to cause problems in everyday life—such as avoiding social situations at school, at work, or with friends and family—it’s time to seek professional help. This may be a sign of an anxiety disorder or other mental health condition. 

The good news is, mental health conditions are treatable and seeing a mental health professional, like a psychiatrist, is the first step toward feeling better.  




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